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The differences between us..

I think I'm realising why the house is so messy and why I feel so lazy and frustrated all the time.

Housework done by me yesterday
Dishwasher loaded and emptied twice
Washing hung on line and brought in when dry
Spare room cleared
Dinner prepared
Cake baked
Cats fed twice

Housework done by the boy yesterday
Dinner served (I was watching Eastenders :p)
Cats fed once
Spare room cleared (he did more than me because much of it was heavy boxes and furniture moving)

To be honest I have no idea how much he'd do if he wasn't nagged, I don't take that risk ;) Seems very unfair as we're both on holiday and both work full time and while the dishwasher and laundry seem to have turned into my jobs somewhere along the way, his jobs like cleaning the kitchen only get done once every few months (I feel sick when I go in there.. little lumps of dried on cat food everywhere.. mud and grass all over the floor..) I hate cleaning the kitchen so I'm not going to just do it, I'm going to make him do it :p He only seems to clean when people come over, and never cleans just for me :(
Anyway, I think I'm due a nice lazy day today while himself does all the sanding and painting! Muahaha.
We're both going to my midwife appointment at 11, slightly nervous about this because I've only taken Stu to 2 appointments with me before but I cried both times. It seems like a bad omen. I can't think of anything I've got to cry about today though, I've got nothing to bring up with her at all. But he wants to come and I'd like him to come too, to hear the heartbeat and maybe hear what position the baby's lying in and everything (I can't work it out, I know sometimes a hard lump sticks out of my left side, but I also feel movement on my left side and in the middle, down low where it hurt :p Perhaps that's the two arms? Hmm)
Anyway off for breakfast, boiled-to-death egg and toast :)

Comments

seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:12 am (UTC)
Yes it bloody does, warm hard boiled eggs are not the same! :(
I'll post about it in my baby journal. Im quite nervous today for some reason!
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:15 am (UTC)
aww don't be, everything is bound to be just fine : ) still it's natural to be nervous, i'm always bricking it before an appointment!
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:25 am (UTC)
I worry for ages before mine but when she says everything's looking great, it's such a nice feeling! :)
Better pluck my stomach before I go actually :P I think I'd rather the hairs had kept growing at normal rate on my legs than have to deal with hairs on my stomach! Not that I can see the worst bit any more. Argh!
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:27 am (UTC)
-snickers- oh the joys of what i have to look forward to heheheh...
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:35 am (UTC)
OK do you not have that then? I think mine started a while ago. It's not that bad, just a few jet black hairs under my belly button :P I know its not just me because lots of people on my forums mention them (one girl had it waxed!!)
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:48 am (UTC)
yeha i hear it can get -really- bad, i don't have it yet though thankfully i also don't have that weird dark line that pregnant woman get either! still i bet i have -all- that to some and more....feh!
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 01:50 am (UTC)
I have the weird dark line :D I can't see that part of my belly but I saw it in the changing rooms in Mothercare. It's not that dark, just like a dodgy tan colour really
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:01 am (UTC)
i'm not sure if i'll get iyt owrse or hardly at all because i'm naturally nilk bottle white in colour...

talking of mothercare, weird question i know but do yu ahve any idea as to whether you can exchange bras? i know you cna't exchange kncikers and such but i bought another maternity bra yesterday, not even taken it out of the box only to find out after measuring myself that i need a bigger one : (
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:18 am (UTC)
I think you can, Im not sure though. Maybe their website says?
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:20 am (UTC)
Argh I just spent AGES replying to your email but its been blocked because I swore :P ARGH! I didnt keep the sent mail either :(
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:35 am (UTC)
*LMFAO!!!!!* omg.... that's awful : ( -hits e-mail- i'm sued to tempramental computers so i always ctr+alt ctr+c everything before i send be it a comment or an e-mail.

i forgot we had filters...i thought it only filtered outgoing not incoming!!!
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:46 am (UTC)
It wont get you in trouble will it?
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:47 am (UTC)
nah not at all lol.
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 02:48 am (UTC)
besides i think it just bounces it so they don't actually see who to and who from it gets blocked before it gets anywhere based off of a list of 'nonono!' words
seren
Apr. 28th, 2004 03:37 am (UTC)
I hope you're right :) There was a lot of faff in our office about email at Christmas, someone had forwarded round a jokey rude picture, and he was suspended for a month! One of the temps forwarded it as well and he was kicked out. About 4 people got formal written warnings because they'd forwarded it to someone outside Ofsted. They're still going on about it now, it takes the piss :/ I've been paranoid to use my email ever since incase they're spying on everything!!
lavendersblue
Apr. 28th, 2004 03:55 am (UTC)
ahh theyr'e like that here but it woudl only come in to effect if i -sent- something offensive / inappropiate or forwarded it

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